When the premise for Humpday
became part of pre-Sundance publicity
earlier this year, journalists
chimed in with a convenient shorthand title.
With Kevin Smith’s Zack and Miri Make a
Porno—about two platonic pals who decide
to make an “adult film” together, strictly for
the cash—recently in the rearview mirror,
there was a temptation to refer to writer/
director Lynn Shelton’s comedy—about two
male platonic pals who decide to make an
“adult film” together, strictly for the art—as
Zack and Zack Make a Porno.
Aside from the dubious honor of being
associated with anything Kevin Smith has
made in the last several years, the tag kind
of missed the point about what was so distinctive
about Humpday—what made it at
once so raucous, and so insightful. If anything,
this was the “mumblecore” cinema
movement’s own version of sex, lies and videotape,
or Kelly Reichardt’s recent drama
Old Joy rendered as farce. Its signifiers
have nothing to do with crude mainstream
comedy; this is something that builds on
all the creativity of independent cinema’s
own landmarks to find something uniquely
entertaining and perceptive.
So, yeah, after Andrew (Joshua Leonard)
arrives unexpectedly on the doorstep of his
college pal Ben (Mark Duplass), they do dare
one another, during a drunken/stoned evening,
to have sex together as part of a project
for Humpfest, the annual amateur porn competition
sponsored by Seattle’s alt-weekly,
The Stranger. But, their arrangement is complicated
by more than sober-minded morning-
after regret: Ben is happily married and
preparing to start a family with his wife, Anna
(Alycia Delmore); Andrew is a globe-hopping
vagabond who fancies himself an artist but
hasn’t ever really finished anything. So what,
exactly, is each of them trying to prove by
going through with their “project”?
That’s a central element of the character
psychology at work here, and
Shelton does a terrific job of getting
into these guys’ heads. Ben may be a
suburban husband with a steady job, but he’s
also a verge-of-30-something who’s having a
hard time seeing himself as a straight-arrow
potential father whose experimenting days
are behind him. Duplass has some hilarious
moments at a party hosted by Andrew’s pansexual,
artsy-fartsy new friends, trying desperately
not to look as square as he feels. And
Andrew, despite his bohemian posturing,
gets squeamish during a three-way with his
new bisexual pal (played by Shelton) and her
girlfriend. Humpday isn’t about two dudes
who want to have sex; it’s about two dudes
who think the act will say something different
to the world about who they are.
But, it is most definitely about dudes, which is why Shelton’s insight seems all the more remarkable. While the film’s final 20 minutes turn into a brilliantly awkward hotel-room set piece—as Ben and Andrew try to work their way into something neither of them really wants to do—there’s more than gay panic at work. Humpday digs into an unspoken element of the recent spate of “bro-mantic” male-bonding comedies, as these two longtime friends try to figure out a way to express that they really do miss one another. This is a movie that understands how hard it is for straight males to be close without feeling gay.
It seems unfair to go this long without
mentioning the performance by Delmore,
which is simply the most perfectly pitched
supporting acting you’ll see this year. She
does a remarkable job of conveying Anna’s
puzzlement over Ben’s strange behavior
without ever coming off as shrewish or
really anything more than deeply concerned.
And, she also plays a crucial role
as the audience surrogate, trying to make
sense of a situation that makes little sense
on its surface. Duplass and Leonard are
wonderful, but it feels that Humpday could
have collapsed entirely without Delmore as
the third point on this triangle.
There’s a moment near the end of
Humpday where Ben and Andrew, lying
nearly naked on their hotel-room bed, begin
tapping out a rhythm in unison on their
bare bellies, apparently echoing something
from their shared history. It’s a simple,
almost throwaway scene, yet it may be one
of the movie’s most telling. In this wonderfully
funny story, we get a chance to watch
two men connect in a way that really does
mean something to them. And at the same
time, we get to watch a filmmaker connect
with something more real than sex.
HUMPDAY
Mark Duplass, Joshua Leonard, Alycia Delmore
Not Rated