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Posted // 2010-03-12 - Cheryl Maher, the New Hampshire woman who says she had an affair with Layton Rep. Kevin Garn in 1985 and was paid $150,000 to keep her secret, says Garn is lying about a naked hot tub encounter between them when she was 15 and he was 30.
Garn told reporters last night,
I can unequivocally tell you there was no physical contact, there was no touching, there was no intercourse, there was none of those things. It simply did not occur. ...I'm not trying to downplay what did occur but I want to make it very plain.
Maher says he's lying, but is hesitant to give her version of events.
"Let's just say this. He really loves to massage," Maher told City Weekly when asked for details of the contact in the hot tub. Maher, though, talks less about how that particular encounter traumatized her and more about the emotional relationship she had with Garn. "I was in love with him," she said.
She kept her secret for many years, but by 2002 was communicating with news reporters and prosecutors. At that time, she accepted a $150,000 payment from Garn and signed a confidentiality agreement, she says.
She's also angry at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints,
who she accuses of being notified of the abuse on multiple occasions
and not offering her adequate services or support, even as Garn's
position in the church--from her perspective--was unaffected.
Garn, Maher says, was her fourth grade sunday school teacher, though their affair wouldn't begin for several years after that.
"In the church, people feel they can trust everybody," said Maher, who was excommunicated a few years ago for an extra-marital affair. "You're supposed to be safe with the priesthood holder, or whoever you're with. And I think my Mom and Dad felt that way. 'He's taking her out to lunch. Oh, he's taken her shopping. She's taken care of.' They had no idea. That was the trust in the church and I think that needs to be looked at."
When asked if she thought the church has already changed on those matters since her incident in 1985, she said no.
"That is my experience all the way until now, that no one wants to believe a priesthood holder will hurt someone, but that's not the case," she said. "In 1993, Kevin Garn went into repent for what he'd done ... I wasn't notified, I wasn't checked on, like, 'Are you OK?' that kind of thing. There's no communication. 'This man has admitted what he's done, we want to help you, are you OK with what happened in your past?' [My experience] was 'Good luck to you, thank you, we'll check into it.' That makes me angry."
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I gotta say, Kevin Garn's wife sounds like the churchiest person I've ever heard of. I wonder if she does anything without first asking her god for permission.
Wow, those emails sure are keeping me entertained....gaaahhhhhh they are so preachy I want to shoot my eye out.
The guy made a terrible mistake 25 years ago and it's haunting him now. The big difference is rather than being an award-winning, internationally acclaimed film director, he's a Mormon, Republican legislator, so he won't be placed under house arrest or barred from traveling out of the country or have to fight off women's activist groups who want his head on a stick, still.
Instead, Garn did the announcement when it looked like the story would break with him or without him.
And to see his colleagues rise to their feet and applaud him was breathtakingly awkward. I couldn't tell if they were applauding his hot tubbing exploits with a naked 15 year-old or that he made the announcement the night the session ended and they were just glad to get it over. You know, relieved that it wasn't one of them, this time, anyway.
There's going to be a public admission that the girl was really his plural wife.
Oh wait, that was the finale of Big Love.
Pretty close, though!
What about the woman who made an agreement to take money and keep her mouth shut not keeping her word?
I don't believe anything actually happened. She sounds like someone who needs attention. She blames him and the church what about her involvement?